Summer 2025 an the third child gender
There are much to be written almost every week on this diary. Just having the time and discipline to sit down and write it has been hard. There were mixed emotion in anticipation of the gender of the third child. Extended family are hoping for a boy, would be the only boy the in Lam family. Having a girl would perhaps a little disappointing to say the most for the grandpa. There is excitement in this anticipation, but there is also a feeling of burden on this expectation. If it comes true, there is such a chance in family dynamic. Having the only boy, and the youngest, who will get all the attention, pampering and perhaps spoiling. With those special treatment would make an appearing that those older sisters aren't loved as much. They have such so dear to me that even those thought of preferential treatment of my own or other family members disturb me. As they grew older, what if it induces jealousy between the genders because of the adult behavior. Those thoughts both...